4* Coronado Island Resort & Spa

Some hotels have history; Hotel del Coronado practically has its own mythology. The red-roofed Victorian landmark has been welcoming guests since 1888, hosted generations of celebrities and famously appeared in Some Like It Hot with Marilyn Monroe. After a six-year, $550-million restoration, The Del is looking particularly smart again. You can stay in the restored Victorian building, more contemporary Cabanas and Views rooms, or splash out on cottages and villas. The huge beachfront resort adds pools, spa treatments, reserved beach seating and enough restaurants and bars to turn several days into a self-contained holiday. Coronado is very much its own destination, so Hillcrest nightlife means crossing back into San Diego proper. That's hardly the point here, though. GayMapper tip: If you’ve always wanted to stay at The Del, book the Victorian – the history is a big part of what you’re paying for.

La Jolla makes a convincing argument for spending at least part of a San Diego trip away from Downtown altogether. The Empress Hotel sits right in the village, with restaurants, galleries, coastal walks and La Jolla Cove all within an easy stroll. Rooms have recently been refreshed, with fridges, coffee facilities and larger suites available when you want more space. A daily hot breakfast is included in the destination fee, along with afternoon refreshments and fitness-centre access, while the hotel’s Beach Concierge can sort you out with chairs and umbrellas for the coast. Manhattan of La Jolla downstairs covers Italian dinners when you don’t feel like going far. San Diego’s gay nightlife in Hillcrest is across town, so this is very much the beach-and-La-Jolla choice. GayMapper tip: Come here for mornings by the water and seals at the Cove – save Hillcrest for one planned night out rather than trying to commute back and forth.

Palm trees, koi ponds, waterfalls, tropical birds and tiki torches: Catamaran Resort Hotel and Spa has absolutely no intention of being subtle. The Polynesian theme may be gloriously old-school, but the setting between Mission Bay and the Pacific is hard to beat. Days can involve paddleboarding, cycling the boardwalk, lounging beside the outdoor pool or disappearing into the beachfront spa, whose hot tub looks directly over the bay. Oceana Coastal Kitchen keeps dinner waterside, while many rooms and suites add balconies looking towards Mission Bay, the ocean or tropical gardens. Pacific Beach gives you plenty of bars and restaurants nearby, although San Diego’s main LGBTQ nightlife in Hillcrest is a separate evening out. GayMapper tip: This is one to book when you actually want to use the resort – otherwise you’re wasting a perfectly good excuse to spend a day doing very little beside Mission Bay.

Little Italy is one of those neighbourhoods where your biggest problem is deciding where to eat next, and Porto Vista Hotel puts you right in the middle of it. The waterfront, Saturday market, cafés and restaurants are all easy to reach on foot, with Downtown just beyond. The hotel has embraced its slightly retro motel bones rather than trying to hide them. Rooms open from exterior corridors and feature original artwork, while murals and installations continue around the building. Upstairs, GlassDoor serves Mexican food and cocktails with sweeping harbour and skyline views – definitely the hotel's strongest card. Hillcrest and its gay bars are a short rideshare away, so Porto Vista works better as a food-and-city base than a nightlife-first hotel. GayMapper tip: Head upstairs around sunset – those GlassDoor views make the hotel feel considerably more expensive than the room rate often suggests.

The Sofia Hotel has been part of Downtown San Diego in one form or another since 1926, when it opened as the Pickwick. That history still gives the building more personality than the glass towers around it, although the 211 rooms have been thoroughly modernised. Recent changes have also moved the food offering on: Truva now serves Mediterranean-inspired dishes and cocktails, with Starbucks and Tender Greens providing easier grab-and-go options. There’s a 24-hour fitness centre, dedicated yoga studio and complimentary bikes for exploring the waterfront or Little Italy. You’re just outside the Gaslamp Quarter rather than amid its busiest streets, with the waterfront and Little Italy both close. Hillcrest is an easy rideshare when gay nightlife calls. GayMapper tip: Borrow one of the bikes and head towards the Embarcadero – this is a particularly good Downtown base if you like exploring under your own steam.

Baseball fans barely need directions from San Diego Marriott Gaslamp Quarter – Petco Park is right there. Everyone else gets the same advantage in different form: restaurants, Gaslamp nightlife, the convention centre and waterfront are all easily walkable. The real reason to remember this Marriott is 22 floors up. ALTITUDE Sky Lounge looks across Downtown, the bay and directly into Petco Park, making it one of the better hotel rooftops in the city. Downstairs, Soleil@k handles breakfast and Latitude Lounge takes over for cocktails and casual food later on. There’s also no resort fee, which feels increasingly refreshing in California. Hillcrest’s LGBTQ nightlife is a quick drive north rather than part of the immediate neighbourhood. GayMapper tip: Time ALTITUDE for a Padres game or sunset – even non-baseball people may suddenly develop an interest in the view.