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Gay Provincetown
Provincetown, Massachusetts, often called P-Town, is a favourite destination for LGBTQ+ travellers, having historically been a place for quirky artist types and anyone a little different. Explore the rich history that's woven into every part of town, but also appreciate the progressive and modern culture that welcomes everyone in. For such a small seaside town, Provincetown has a deep diversity of culture and a thriving gay scene that attracts travellers all year round but really comes into its own in the Summer months. Of note is Provincetown Bear Week in July or August each year, which sees thousands of Bears and admirers flocking together from across the globe. Commercial Street is the heart of the gay scene, but LGBTQ+ and mixed clubs are spread across Provincetown.
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Provincetown Gay Bars
GayMapper brings you information about gay bars and cruising bars in the city. Here are the top choices, read more about these bars or click below to see listings of all gay venues in this city.
A-House
Fetish, Dancing, Cruising
Atlantic House (or A-House) has been the premier nightclub in Provincetown for decades. The complex is open year-round and features three distinct bars. Little Bar offers a jukebox, fireplace, and quirky nautical decor, and is a popular space for an afternoon hangout. Macho Bar is the city's original leather and Levi bar (complete with cage) attracting a cruisey crowd. The Big Room is the number one dance club in Provincetown, with state-of-the-art sound and lighting and the very latest music.
Shipwreck Lounge
Cosy, Cocktails, Outdoor Seating
Located in the upscale Brass Key Hotel, Shipwreck Lounge has a classic but modern, relaxed yet vibrant feel. It's the perfect spot to meet up with old friends over handcrafted cocktails, made from high quality fresh produce and exotic ingredients from around the world. Skilled mixologists shake up the perfect blend of ingredients and flavours to complete your Provincetown getaway, transporting you to another world as you enjoy your drinks around the fire in a super cosy setting.
Harbor Lounge
Cocktails, Outdoor Seating
This waterfront cocktail lounge overlooking the harbour is a beautiful place to have an afternoon drink with friends. The space is modern with a comfortable ambience, serving crowd favourites like martinis, bubbles, and a great selection of wines and beers. Enjoy all this in a seating area that feel like a home from home, watching the sun set over the pier, and chatting with a welcoming crowd.
Boatslip Resort & Beach Club
Cocktails, Outdoor Seating
Boatslip is a world-renowned destination for LGBTQ+ travellers. This legendary hotel on the beachfront in the heart of the gay scene is home to the iconic Tea Dance, a lively afternoon dance party that's known across the world - daily 16:00-19:00 in high season. Even if you are not staying at the hotel, you can head to the bar and sundeck. The hotel itself features a heated pool and a spacious sundeck with deck chairs where you can sit back, enjoy the music, and sample delicious grilled food and fresh salads. Friendly bartenders serve refreshing summer cocktails. Check for specific opening times.
Aqua Bar
Cocktails, Outdoor Seating
Aqua Bar is located at the Aquarium Marketplace, boasting a beautiful waterfront deck as its proudest feature. The deck looks out at magnificent views of Provincetown Harbour (and the sunset if you visit in the evening), providing a scenic place for you to enjoy creative cocktails and delicious food. There are 7 restaurants on site, each offering something a little different for you to try. Aqua Bar is a must-visit destination for a stylish night out on the coast.
Wave at Crown & Anchor
Sports, Dancing, Outdoor Seating
Located in the popular Crown & Anchor Inn, Wave is a great place to relax with delicious cocktails served up by friendly bartenders. There's access to a waterfront pool deck with fantastic harbour views, plus a dozen video screens playing a range of music videos. House DJs choose what's on and keep the place lively, and there's also a Stage & Screen Musical night multiple times per week.
Gay friendly hotels in Provincetown
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4* Crowne Pointe Hotel & Spa
The perfect vacation spot in Provincetown, the Crowne Pointe Inn is an award winning luxury hotel, spa, and restaurant located in the center of town.
This gay friendly, adults-only inn is less than 3.2 km from Herring Cove Beach and offers on-site facilities like a sauna, full-service spa and hot tub. A breakfast buffet is served daily. No one under the age of 18 is permitted at any time.
A refrigerator and free Wi-Fi are available in every room at the Crowne Pointe Inn. Guests staying at the Crowne Pointe Historic Inn can enjoy swimming in the outdoor pool or lounging on the sun terrace.
The use of the steam room, sauna, soaking tub and relaxation at our award winning Kiehl's Shui Spa is included with the room stay.
Complimentary cooked to order breakfast is served to guests and complimentary wine and cheese is served daily from 17:00 to 18:00 hours. Enjoying food and wine at the on-site Pointe Restaurant and Wine Bar is also an option.
Race Point Beach is 4.8 km away. The Pilgrim Monument is 6 minutes' walk from the inn.
4* Cape Colony Inn
This charming Provincetown inn is nestled on 7 acres of land, steps away from gay venues and the beach. The Cape Cod National Seashore Beach is 4.8 km away.
Every room at Cape Colony Inn features a refrigerator, flat-screen TV, work desk and Keurig coffee machine. The en suite bathrooms offer complimentary Beekman 1802 toiletries.
Guests can avail of the on-site beach volleyball court, shuffleboard courts, outdoor heated pool, use the on-site barbecue facilities, gas grills and fire pit. A daily complimentary continental breakfast is served in the lobby.
Fanizzi's Restaurant by the Sea is 5 minutes' walk from the Cape Colony Inn Provincetown. The Mews Restaurant & Cafe is half a kilometer away.
3* Sandcastle Resort and Club
This oceanfront and gay friendly hotel is located on a private beach in scenic Provincetown and offers views of Cape Cod bay and Provincetown Harbor. It features a heated indoor pool with hot tub, seasonal outdoor pool, tennis court and fitness centre. Provincetown whale watching fleets are 3.2 km from the resort.
Guest rooms are decorated in beach themed decor and have fully equipped kitchens, flat-screen cable TV and sitting areas with sofa bed. Some rooms have private balconies and guests have a choice of views, including an unobstructed beachfront view of Cape Cod bay.
Parking and WiFi are free.
The Cape Cod National Seashore is 14.8 km from Sandcastle Resort. The shopping on Commercial Street is 2.5 km away.
5* Land's End Inn
The crown jewel of Cape Cod Hotels, offering spectacular ocean views, luxurious rooms, and distinctive service all steps from downtown.
This adults only and gay friendly Provincetown luxury accommodation boasts individually decorated rooms have free Wi-Fi and flat-screen TVs. Public beaches are within 1.6 km of the property.
Private balconies with sea views are available in some rooms at the Lands End Inn. The rooms have an en suite bathroom and unique architecture.
Guests can enjoy a daily continental breakfast and an evening reception with wine, cheese, and beer.
Concierge services are available at the Provincetown Land's End Inn.
Pilgrim Monument and Dolphin Fleet Provincetown are both within 1.6 km of the hotel. Art's Dune Tours is 5 minutes' drive away.
4* 8 Dyer Hotel
Exceptional Gay and Lesbian Bed and Breakfast Accommodation in Provincetown. 8 Dyer Hotel provides accommodation with a restaurant, free private parking, a seasonal outdoor swimming pool and a shared lounge. All rooms feature a flat-screen TV with satellite channels and a private bathroom. Providing free WiFi throughout the property, the allergy-free hotel features a hot tub.
The hotel offers a buffet or a la carte breakfast.
8 Dyer Hotel offers a sauna. The area is popular for cycling, and bike hire is available at the accommodation.
Popular points of interest near 8 Dyer Hotel include Provincetown Library, Pilgrim Monument and Commercial Street. The nearest airport is Provincetown Municipal Airport, 4 km from the hotel.
4* Provincetown Htl @ Gabriels
This historic Provincetown hotel, located just steps away from Commerical Street, boasts a large courtyard and gardens as well as free WiFi access. Pilgrim Monument is 290 m away.
Every room at The gay friendly Provincetown Hotel at Gabriel's features a a cable TV. Many rooms have a fireplace. They are uniquely decorated in warm colours, plush bedding, and wood furnishings. Select rooms offer a private balcony.
Herring Cove Beach is 3.8 km away. The Highland Museum & Lighthouse is 13.5 km away from the hotel.
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