4* Mark Hopkins InterContinental

Hotel Zeppelin takes San Francisco’s counterculture history and turns the volume up. Rock-and-roll artwork, provocative graphics and a deliberately rebellious mood give Hotel Zeppelin far more attitude than the average Union Square boutique hotel. The basement game room is great fun, with arcade games and plenty of space to hang out, while the 24-hour gym even includes a boxing dummy. PLS on Post handles food and drinks, and pets get a particularly enthusiastic welcome rather than merely being tolerated. Union Square and the theatres are only a few blocks away, with excellent transport towards the Castro when it’s time for the main gay nightlife. Chinatown and Nob Hill are easy to reach too. GayMapper tip: A much better fit for travellers who find beige hotel lobbies depressing – the whole place is designed to remind you that San Francisco once had a seriously rebellious streak.

YOTEL’s futuristic rooms are squeezed inside the historic Grant Building, which is a very San Francisco collision of old architecture and new technology. YOTEL San Francisco sits directly on Market Street with Civic Center, theatres and Downtown transport close by. The smallest cabins are genuinely tiny – the Solo is only around nine square metres – but smart design makes good use of the space, while larger rooms and suites give you much more room to breathe. There’s a sizeable 24-hour gym, co-working areas and self-service technology throughout. The restored building is also LEED Silver certified. This Mid-Market position gives you easy transport towards the Castro and puts SoMa’s queer nightlife within relatively easy reach without forcing you to stay in either district. GayMapper tip: Check the room size before booking rather than afterwards – the compact cabins are clever, but “compact” is doing some serious work here.

The biggest recent reason to rediscover The St. Regis San Francisco is underground: its newly reimagined two-level spa now stretches across around 9,000 square feet, with cedar saunas, eucalyptus steam rooms, a Himalayan salt room and access to the indoor infinity pool. Upstairs, the hotel remains refined rather than flashy, with spacious contemporary rooms and the famously attentive St. Regis service. Afternoon tea continues the brand’s grand traditions, while the St. Regis Bar serves its own San Francisco take on the Bloody Mary. Suite guests also receive the full Butler Service experience. SFMOMA is next door and Yerba Buena Gardens are across the street, putting you firmly in cultured SoMa. The neighbourhood’s queer nightlife is closer than the Castro scene, which is easily reached by Muni. GayMapper tip: If you’re splurging here, protect some time for the spa – using the room merely as somewhere to sleep rather misses the point.

Shipping containers, giant games and fire pits aren't the usual Fisherman’s Wharf formula. Hotel Zephyr takes the waterfront setting and has considerably more fun with it, filling the hotel with recycled nautical materials and playful industrial design. The 361 rooms have a shipyard-inspired look, with some adding balconies or direct Bay views. The real star is The Yard, an 8,000-square-foot outdoor space packed with oversized games, sculptures and four fire pits; there’s also an indoor games room with pool, ping-pong and shuffleboard. A daily amenity fee applies, so factor that into the rate. Pier 39 is virtually outside, while the Castro and SoMa LGBTQ nightlife are journeys for later rather than neighbourhood attractions. GayMapper tip: Zephyr works particularly well with friends – fire pits, games and waterfront wandering give you plenty to do before you’ve even started sightseeing.

Two handsome Edwardian houses, extensive gardens and the Castro practically on the doorstep make Parker Guest House feel much more like staying in a particularly lovely San Francisco home than a conventional hotel. Breakfast is included each morning, then the evening wine social gives guests a natural chance to chat before heading out. There’s a library with fireplace and piano, several garden spaces and paid on-site parking. The property also runs entirely on renewable electricity and is part of San Francisco’s Green Business programme. Location is the real winner: you’re between the Castro, Mission and Noe Valley, with the main Castro LGBTQ bars, restaurants and historic landmarks within walking distance and Muni nearby for the rest of the city. GayMapper tip: Still one of the nicest choices for a first gay San Francisco trip – close to the nightlife, but calm enough to feel like a retreat once you come home.

There’s a pleasantly old-fashioned San Francisco feel to Kensington Park Hotel, housed in a 1925 Gothic-style building just off Union Square. Hand-painted ceilings and dark wood in the lobby set the tone before you even reach the classic, comfortably furnished bedrooms. One especially welcome feature is what you don’t get: there’s currently no amenity or resort fee. WiFi is complimentary, the rooms are relatively spacious for central San Francisco and cable cars pass close by for the wonderfully impractical-but-fun journey towards Fisherman’s Wharf. Dining can be charged back from nearby partner restaurants. The Castro isn’t around the corner, but Powell Street transport makes reaching the main gay nightlife straightforward, while Chinatown, theatres and Downtown attractions are much closer. GayMapper tip: A good pick if you like proper historic hotels but would rather spend your money on dinner than another mysterious daily “destination fee.”