5* Pendry San Diego

Andaz San Diego is at its best upstairs. The rooftop combines a heated pool, cabanas, open-air dining and a properly sociable bar atmosphere, so an innocent afternoon swim can quite easily turn into sunset cocktails without anyone bothering to change floors. The 159-room Downtown hotel has the polished, slightly playful design you’d expect from Andaz, while STK handles the steakhouse side downstairs. The Rooftop by STK serves everything from breakfast to late-night drinks, with live music on Thursdays and plenty of skyline views. The Gaslamp is outside the door, which makes restaurants and conventional nightlife effortless. Hillcrest and the main gay bars are a short rideshare north, so you can enjoy both without compromising on a luxury Downtown base. GayMapper tip: Keep one afternoon unscheduled for the rooftop pool – this is not a hotel where you should only turn up to sleep.

Sometimes location really is the whole story. Uptown Inn by Vantaggio Suites sits directly on University Avenue in Hillcrest, placing some of San Diego’s best-known LGBTQ venues within minutes: Rich’s for dancing, Flicks for drinks and videos, Gossip Grill and plenty more. The recently renovated studios are compact but smart, with fridges, work space and free WiFi. Longer stays are made easier by a shared full kitchen and guest laundry, while there’s also a 24-hour fitness centre and paid secure parking. It feels more like a simple urban aparthotel than a conventional full-service property – which suits the neighbourhood nicely. Balboa Park and the Zoo are nearby too, so staying here doesn’t mean choosing nightlife over sightseeing. GayMapper tip: If the gay scene is your main reason for staying in San Diego, this is the rare hotel where you can genuinely forget about rideshares for the evening.

The Sofia Hotel has been part of Downtown San Diego in one form or another since 1926, when it opened as the Pickwick. That history still gives the building more personality than the glass towers around it, although the 211 rooms have been thoroughly modernised. Recent changes have also moved the food offering on: Truva now serves Mediterranean-inspired dishes and cocktails, with Starbucks and Tender Greens providing easier grab-and-go options. There’s a 24-hour fitness centre, dedicated yoga studio and complimentary bikes for exploring the waterfront or Little Italy. You’re just outside the Gaslamp Quarter rather than amid its busiest streets, with the waterfront and Little Italy both close. Hillcrest is an easy rideshare when gay nightlife calls. GayMapper tip: Borrow one of the bikes and head towards the Embarcadero – this is a particularly good Downtown base if you like exploring under your own steam.

Baseball fans barely need directions from San Diego Marriott Gaslamp Quarter – Petco Park is right there. Everyone else gets the same advantage in different form: restaurants, Gaslamp nightlife, the convention centre and waterfront are all easily walkable. The real reason to remember this Marriott is 22 floors up. ALTITUDE Sky Lounge looks across Downtown, the bay and directly into Petco Park, making it one of the better hotel rooftops in the city. Downstairs, Soleil@k handles breakfast and Latitude Lounge takes over for cocktails and casual food later on. There’s also no resort fee, which feels increasingly refreshing in California. Hillcrest’s LGBTQ nightlife is a quick drive north rather than part of the immediate neighbourhood. GayMapper tip: Time ALTITUDE for a Padres game or sunset – even non-baseball people may suddenly develop an interest in the view.

Pendry San Diego manages the difficult trick of being a serious luxury hotel while also feeling like somewhere you could actually have fun. Its Gaslamp location helps, but so does having restaurants, bars, a rooftop pool and a beer hall all under one roof. The 317 rooms bring a polished coastal-California look, while Lionfish covers seafood and sushi, Provisional does brunch, Fifth & Rose handles cocktails and Nason’s Beer Hall brings the volume up when required. The Pool House sits beside the rooftop pool for daytime drinks, and Spa Pendry gives you somewhere to undo the consequences of the night before. Hillcrest’s gay bars are a quick rideshare away, while the Gaslamp and Petco Park are outside the door. GayMapper tip: Pendry works particularly well when different people in the group want different things – spa, rooftop, cocktails, beer and proper dinner can all happen without leaving the building.

The clue is in the name: Club Wyndham Inn at the Park sits right on the western edge of Balboa Park, making museums, gardens and the San Diego Zoo unusually easy to reach without treating them as a day trip. Inside, things are much more apartment-like than hotel-like. The large studios and one-bedroom suites come with proper kitchens and dining space, while the panoramic rooftop terrace is a lovely place to take in the skyline. There’s also a fitness centre for anyone who still has energy after walking around Balboa Park all day. Hillcrest begins just north of here, and the main LGBTQ nightlife along University Avenue is comfortably reachable on foot. That makes this one of the few San Diego hotels where both sightseeing and gay nightlife genuinely work without constantly calling a car. GayMapper tip: The kitchen-equipped suites are particularly useful for longer stays – and rooftop sunset drinks are considerably cheaper when you bring your own.